Healing in Public: Coaching, Dating & Growing While Still in It

What does it mean to heal in public? In this raw, reflective, and wildly relatable episode, Kendall Patterson and Kyle Miller talk about navigating personal transformation while coaching others—and how to stay aligned when you're still walking through the fire.

They unpack:

• How to be honest without oversharing

• Navigating online dating while healing

• Attachment styles and emotional regulation

• Codependency vs healthy partnership

• What it means to show up with yourself, not just by yourself

Kendall and Kyle dive into vulnerable territory—shattering outdated norms about “having it all together” and exploring how real connection happens through truth, discomfort, and aligned action. Whether you’re a coach, creative, or just trying to date while doing the work, this one’s for you.

📌 Show Notes:

• [00:01] Welcome to Love in Sync

• [00:33] Healing while coaching—why it's not easy, but it’s real

• [02:00] Kyle shares how he became a trauma-informed coach

• [06:00] Kendall reflects on imposter syndrome as a realtor from humble beginnings

• [10:00] Social media vulnerability and the ripple effect

• [13:00] Avoidance, hyper-independence, and the myth of being saved

• [17:00] Dating while healing: trauma bonds, self-awareness, and pacing

• [23:00] Virgo Moons, nervous system regulation, and nature as medicine

• [26:00] Connection > productivity — why we’re wired for relationship

• [32:00] The “baggage” double standard in dating

• [36:00] Green flags vs red flags on dating apps

• [43:00] Why shared interests matter (yes, even dancing!)

• [50:00] Soul conversations, emotional intelligence, and masculine vulnerability

• [55:00] Codependency, masculinity myths, and emotional regulation

• [1:03:00] Astrology, trauma, and the evolution of who we are

• [1:05:00] Why dating apps may never show you your soulmate

• [1:07:00] Final thoughts on showing up real and messy

👥 Guest Info:

Kyle Miller
Certified coach, trauma survivor, and emotional intelligence educator.

• Instagram: @kylemillercoaching

• TikTok: @kylemillercoaching

• Website: www.kylemillercoaching.com

• YouTube, Noster, Clapper, Lemon8: @kylemillercoaching

🔗 Kendall Patterson:

• Website: www.mtrnl.com

• TikTok & IG: @kendallpatterson444

• Podcast: Love In Sync on Spotify, Apple & all major platforms

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